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female
age
51-59,
*hippy2
writes:Please help. My xbf is still txting me after I have ask him to have NO contact with me. He has sent question marks ??? and comments. They are not really threatening but I dont know what to do.I dont want to change my number or not have txt because he live very close by and I would rather him txt and hopefully get tired of it than come to my house and surprise me!I DO NOT respond to any of them - just ignore. He txt a friend of ours and told her I didnt want to be his friend anymore! WTF? I had been with him almost 4 yrs and he started sleeping with a woman from the internet when I was out of town with my mother who died. She is there alot but he wants to have sex with me.Now he is asking his buddies to get to my gal friends to find out if and who I am sleeping with. What does it matter?Why does he care and why is he doing this? Is is just control? Does he now realize I was so good to him? (the woman he is with now he can control and I was getting stronger but she is not attractive at all.) I did too much for him and adored him. I know people tell me it doesnt matter - he is a pig and will always be.They say that he was never a good man to have done any of this in the first place and I deserve better and it is out there for me.Any advice or comments greatly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): What a jerk. Sounds like a pushy person who is used to wearing down or manipulating ladies to get his way.
His bad behavior has to have no effect. If any of it gets your attention he will try harder next time. I read that in a puppy training book.
You did right by completley ignoring him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): That's messed up in a way as I have been involved in a similar situation like that before. Not me directly, but the person's ex cheated on that person and then wanted her back while she was with me. Still might, but you should let him know that you are no longer interested in him anymore because he did you wrong and you was good to him. Just be careful on how you do it and there is no need to be afraid.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 he doesn't want you to be move on from him he can but you're not allowed he still sees you as his!threaten him with the police tell him if he don't leave you alone you'll get the police involved for harrassment... and if that don't work get his number blocked off your phone.he's clearly a nut job hun!he doesn't want you but for sex and don't want anyone else to have you.hope this helps x x x ilovebowsandcherries x x x
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