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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guysWhen I'm having sex/any foreplay I find it really difficult to show that I'm feeling pleasure from what he's doing. I feel really really awkward especially if he's watching me. I usually don't show it even if I feel pleasure. I have no idea why this is and it's not nervousness because I'm completly comfortable with my Boyfriend. Also when I give him a BJ I wont let him watch me do it.I would really appreciate some advice on why this is and some help on how I could overcome this. :(Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): Is it a problem?
If its not stopping you having sex, and he doesnt mind, you sound like you still enjoy it so there isnt really a need to try and change or overcome anything:)
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reader, mitta +, writes (25 June 2009):
You are obviously just still abit shy thats all. Just remember that he is REALLY enjoying what you are doing an guys love seeing sexy stuff happening as they are turned on by the visual more than women.
The longer you stay together and the closer you get in your relationship the more comfortable you will get letting him watch you and make noises.
You are still young and have alot of sexual maturing to do, so dont worry if you're not totally comfortable yet :)
HTH
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