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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am in relationship limbo right now. so there is this guy that i work with and were always together we have lunch go on breaks and even hang out every day after work. we have been friends like this for about a year now, at work he get alot of crap because im the ceo's grand daughter and every one thinks were dating even both of our families, like we kiss and stuff but he is saving himself for marrige and im not a virgin. i said once that if i dated a reality tv show person i would want him to kill me and his reply was you would break up with me if i was on tv, i was dumb founded and changed the subject then some one else called him my boyfriend in front of him and he just said nice to met you. we talk about kids and moving in together but i kinda see him as a friend and i think he sees me as more i just dont know how to ask him what the hell we are!?!?!?!?!?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): The big question is do you want to be just friends or something more?If you're happy to be just friends there's no need to say or ask anything because that's what you are now, and if you hear anyone referring to him as your boyfriend you put them straight and tell them he's not.If you want to be more than friends, you quite simply tell him precisely that. There's no need to ask him anything!
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