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writes:What does "I don't see the spark on us anymore" mean?Me and my ex-gf just broke up, I love her wiht all my heart and when we were talking about it she said to me "I don't feel the spark anymore, its not the same as the first time we met." "I still like you a lot, but i just don't want to take you for granted."Now i don't understand what she means, we seemed to be going really strong, but i must of missed some signs of this happening.I was never a long relatinship type of person, all y previous relationships allways have ended up in the first 2 months. Going into this relationship was diffrent, we were friends for a long time for about 2 years, a couple of months ago 4-5 months ago, we decided to date, I felt in love with her really quickly, she is the kind of woman that i would like to spend the rest of my life with. Anways 1-2 months into the relationship, she was getting kicked out of the place she was living in, so i asked a couple of my friends wich where going to rent a new house if she could move in with them and she did. A couple of weeks after that i moved in with them as well as i was living with my family still. And even tho i saw her every day, I felt in love even more with her. We are both 20.I think it was really my mistake to move in with her, i think she kinda got "bored" of me, well really i don't know what to think. Maybe she's found someone better? Anyways i would just like to ask you guys what does losing the spark really mean? What do you guys think i should do try win her back? or just try to move on with my life?
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reader, Your friend +, writes (25 June 2009):
 It means that when you think of that person you can't help smiling and when you see them you can't stop holding hands and when you are together away from the rest of the world you don't want to stop kissing...thats when sparks also turn into stars.
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reader, manamaster  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 the spark is something like your ability to surprise her, example: if you always wake up, and wait in the kitchen for your breakfast, this day, make the breakfast for her, try to be original, never give up, and use your brain to make her happy, but remember, being original, with your personal touch, that's the spark.
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