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writes:Ok, early 2005 I used to talk to a girl (lets call her kim) on msn and we would txt each other all the time and she said that I was her best friend. At the time I really liked her but never told her. When ever we were out with friends she would always remind them that we were best friends. We always put our arms round each other, and went out on our own a few times just walking round at night or just sitting on the swings and talking. She even told me that she would rather spend time with me than anyone else, even her boyfriend. We also held my hand when we were out around friends as well. When we hugged to say goodbye we always held each other tight as if we didn't want to let go.Then for some reason after all that we never talked again for months. We just didn’t txt and she was never on msn and I got a little depressed then when we did talk again i found out she had a boyfriend. When I found this out we didn't talk for nearly a year and I missed her so much. Then by chance we walked past each other on the street and got each others numbers. I txt her to see if she wanted to meet up and she said yeah so we went to the park and sat on the swings and talked like we used to.I asked her if she still had a boyfriend and she said ‘yeah, why?’ but i said just wondering and then she smiled as if she knew I liked her. Anyway when I walked her home we hugged and it was the longest and tightest hug I have ever had. We just stood in the street embracing each other and when i thought she was going to let go she squeezed harder and I was finding it hard to breathe. I also felt a warm loving feeling that I haven't felt before and it was amazing. That was 2007.That was the last time I went out with her. After that we didn't see each other much except the few times we ran into each other in college and hugged. Now back the late 2009 I saw her in a club and she ran over and hugged me and she was a bit drunk and she said that after all these years im still her best friend. I was abit drunk and I thought it would be a good idea to tell her how much i missed her, basiclly i spilled my guts out to her by saying how much I care for her and she said she cares for me alot too, looking back i think she felt very awkward and she had a boyfriend at the time. After that whenever we saw each passing by it was awkward and didn't seem the same as what it used to be. Then last night after not seeing her for months again she ran up and hugged me and gave me a kiss, then later on when we were outside I went to say buy to her and she was a bit drunk but she put her arm around me and rested her head on my shoulder while I talked to her friend and when she introduced me to him she sed 'this is james (me) he is my best friend'.So my question is what do you think of this relationship me and kim have? Do you think there is any romance or just friendship? And why do you think she keeps on calling me her best friend when we hardly ever see each other?Thank you for taking the time to read my question.
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (25 June 2009):
 She could be feeling a bit isolated (spelling?) from other people because of her boyfriend, infact, it could be many things.She might like the feeling of having you as a 'best friend', someone who is always there for her. She obviously cares about you, but you know her better than any of us, so you should decide what to say, or wether to say anything at all. If she's with someone still, don't get your hopes up, but maybe it would be good for you to get things off your chest while she's sober :)Good luck x
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