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writes:heres my problem my boyfriend keeps looking at other chicks while he's with me and its so disrespectful even thought am so good looking girl i really dont wanna ask him to stop it because i dont wanna look not confident, i was wondering if there is any other way to tell him or should i leave him because it started bothering me more and more by time Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): You should talk with him and tell him you feel disrespected and ask him to stop .... I guess you could play him at his own game when he is talking with you look at other guys and say "wow that guy is so sexy" ! might get the message !
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell me too this guy was flirting especially with one girl at first he was only looking at her then it developed to talking about her a lot well he didnt think i know he likes her thats why he kept talking about her and he asked his friends about her name and whether she's dating someone or not when i figure out i broke up with him because it was so not cool for me espeacially when he went and asked about her he stayed away from me for like 2 weeks when we broke up then now he came back and he's begging me to comeback he keeps calling and emailing because the other girl didnt wanna go out with him and now m feeling worst coz i went with such a person , thank you all for the help
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reader, Sambuca Queen  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Sadly guys do that, they look. As long as they look and do not touch. Im in the same boat, theres this one girl my guy flirts with on purpose at work to annoy me and it works.
As long as hes coming home with you, you should be ok. You admitted you are good lucking, so dont worry bout them. Guys flirt to boost their ego, its a pain. But maybe flirt with some other guys or flirt with him. Tease him, let him know he has you and that is such as hell is good enough for him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso diesrespectful
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reader, Wreck  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 No dont leave him .. Looking is just looking its not like hes touching them or trying to talk to them.. but what you should do is just talk to him and tell him that it bothers you to atleast do it when your not there.. because believe it or not just being real EVERY single guy looks at other girls he might think oh damn she is gorgeous ... but you know what ? he might also be thinking that girl is gorgeous but i love my girl and no other girl can take her spot ... I mean I have a girl too and Im not going to lie I do look at other girls all the time but I like my girl alot and looks to me are not what matters the most.....and I know my girl is more then just gorgeous ... i like her for who she is.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (26 June 2009):
Maybe he doesn't realize he's doing it. But if he stares at them in like a disgusting way, then yeah that's a problem. Just so you don't go right out and make a scene, if you catch him doing it, say something like, "She's pretty cute, huh?" You'll probably catch him off guard and even surprise him a little. Maybe you can go from there or at least it will be known to him that you notice him doing that. All-in-all, it's ok to look, but not touch. But if he's giving you the vibe that he's checking them out, let him know how it makes you feel after you make your comment. Let him know that you don't mean to sound insecure, but when he's blatantly checking out other girls in front of you, you see it as a sign of disrespect. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): what ur boyfriend is doin is dat he is being disrespectful and he does not value u as a girlfriend.its either u tel him to stop to leave the play boy alone.clearly he is not sure what he wants
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