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My ex the baby daddy, a friend and my current boyfriend.....

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Question - (25 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2009)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *ay writes:

Hi cupid i recently went on a kinda date with this guy, and his personality attracted me, my little boy came along with us, well it all went well i loved the way he respected me , thing is his 46 and i'm only 27, what if he bores me or so on i've never been with anyone older than 33.

my boyfriend is only 31, i also realized that i still have feelings for my kid's father who made it clear he still loves me after running off with another women which he cheated on me with and married , don't get me wrong i love my boyfriend he treats me well, he makes me want to succeed in life just we haven't seen each other since january ,always work and family etc his in a divorce right now, we do communicate via sms,phone calls but my other question is did i some how fall out of love , what's wrong with me?

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A female reader, laura585 United States +, writes (28 June 2009):

Thats not a question anyone can answer but you. When you've slept with someone before and had a relationship with them before and then u break up- its easier to cheat on a new lover with your ex. It's someone you are already used to. Whether you will actually do it or not is your decision.

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A female reader, Fay South Africa +, writes (26 June 2009):

Fay is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Good day laura sorry 4 confusing no the 46 yr old is another my boyfriend is only 31 pls help , DO U THINK I MIGHT END UP HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY CHILD'S FATHER

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A female reader, laura585 United States +, writes (26 June 2009):

A lot of info- you got me kind of confused. The 46 yr old is your boyfriend or another guy? Anyway I think you will always have some feeling for your kids' dad. At least I know I will and it seems common among my friends too, but it doesn't mean you two will ever be happy together. As far as the age difference - its not really a big deal unless you make it one. And I guess I'm confused on what you're actually asking?

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