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anonymous
writes:Ok so. Me and my boyfriend are almost 18. We have been dating for the longest time and I can say I have never felt like this before and I love him. But we have one (or two) problems.Overprotective parents. We both still live with our parent and I can say we have not had an easy time trying to find privacy. His mother is very protective she won't let him out that much. My parent are pretty mild but they have that thing of I am their baby girl.But the thing is my parents totally we ok with my sister having sex when she was like 16 and nothing happened but I am 17 almost 18 and they are freaking out when I even talk about sex.With his parents it's the same thing but worse. His mother doesn't like to let him leave or hang out a lot. I can understand where she is coming from though. It's her son and she hardly knows me (though I've tried). His mother was his's father's student in high school so it's interesting.Any advice for the future of my relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Pardon me, but as my name suggests, I'm kinda old, and in the old days we never asked our parents for permission to have sex. Back then we didn't expect to be able to screw in our own beds in our parents' homes - because that wasn't consistent with their values, and we were living in their homes and subject to their values. If you're living under their roof, eating the food they bought, then they get to set the rules.
You want to do it in a nice clean bed, then earn enough money to rent a hotel room.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (25 June 2009):
Ok we can take the mature approach to this you and him need to sit down with both ya'll parents and let them know how you feel and tell them what you need to make a mature decision about your sexual needs. Why cant he man up and talk to his parents they probably think if they keep him away from you then ya'll wont have sex which now and days is very stupid and being blind but you need to for sure talk with your parents maybe they would cut ya'll some slack you and your sister are two different people thats why you are being treated this way get some birth control and condoms and sit down with your parents and let them see how mature you are by coming and speaking with them but also let them know you wont have sex until your ready
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