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writes:my best friend told the person that i love am getting married this summer and its not true and he hasnt spoken to me since then until yesterday he sent me a message saying : congratulations for marriage and wished me happiness , i have no idea what to do now , am surprised the most by my best friend , plz help
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reader, manou +, writes (25 June 2009):
manou is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you guys i received his message today at 8 in the morning i swear i was totally lost then i started remembering a lot of previous stuff then i realized what he's talkin about
p,s you were right , with friends like that who needs enemies .
thank you all
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 I agree with Rifraf, this girl is not your friend. Ask her why she lied to him, if she gives you honest and good response, then continue with your friendship, but if she lies and tells you something stupid, then let her go. Her actions are scandalous and she might do worse. You're lucky you found out, next time you might not.
As for the guy, just explain things to him.
I'm more worried about your girlfriend. I've had my share of scandalous friends, I eventually let them go, wish I had done it earlier. It would have spared me a lot of drama and heartache.
Good luck dear.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 your probably in shock, from whats happened.
when your feeling better the best thing to do is call or msg him and say u definately arent getting married and your friend was joking with him.
then you should contact the girl and ask her why she did this to you?
a real friend would never go behind your back and say lies about you.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): So basiclly he wasn't your boyfriend but someone you love. At least that is what im getting. But i do agree with Klara, you should message him and ask him who you are getting married to, what is he getting you for a gift and request the most expensive item your heart desires and then ask where he heard it. If you don't want a gift request a 72 in flat screen for me...
Sweetie this is simple, she is trying to beat you to the punch.. now you have to play it cool and not over react because then you will come off as physcotic.... sooo just try some of the advise given....
good luck
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Tell him that its a lie and you have no idea why your friend would say something like that when its not true,
Talk to him about it then ask your meant to be best friend why she done that in the first place.
hope this helps
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Send him back a message and say "what marriage? I'm not getting married, I've been waiting on you!!" then let him know that you're happy to hear from him and hope he stays in touch.
PS, get rid of the "friend", with friends like that who needs enemies. if she knows you love this guy she should be helping you not hindering you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): your best friend s is jealous or wans your boyfriend for herself. just laught out loud and tell him nothing from that is true and there is no marriage, its easy and clear. good luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): is your best friend (he or she) if he, he might want u is she, she is jealous. just laught out loud and tell him nothing from that is true and there is no marriae its easy and clear. good luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): I don't know ANY context here, so it's just a shot in the dark, but I'd say that I think you should set this straight. Say something along the lines of, "umm... I'm sorry, I don't know where you heard that. Hahaha!" and depending on whether he knows you love him, you could add something increasingly flirty on the end of it, like, "if you didn't know, who would I be gettig married to? ;-) " but if he's like an ex, don't do that.
I hope this helped. Could you possibly add some background information? Message me for details, keep us updated.
I just think you should be as honest as possible, ESPECIALLY if you don't want to give up a future with him.
-GG
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reader, Rebbie  +, writes (25 June 2009):
Well, if this "so called" friend of yours knows that you love him...then she's not a real friend. If you really love this guy, then why dont you tell him its a lie?? And maybe that would also be the right moment to tell him you love him?? I dont know,, I havent been in a situation like that before,,but I think you should talk to him...I hope my advice helped you anyways...
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