A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this guy for 2 years now and it's been good, he's soon to be divorced, encourages me in lot's of ways, I left my job to follow my dreams and his still standing by me, he has 3 kids, 2 with the ex wife and 1 before her time, I'm so scared I'm losing touch with him, if doesn't call me like before I'd hear from him once in 3 weeks I don't even complain. The last I seen him was in January and we're now almost into July. What should I be thinking coz I want to give him his space, but sometimes I feel like I could be standing in his way. I've tried leaving him millions of time's but he refuses to except it. He's also great with my kid. I think i'm confused and don't know what to think any more.
View related questions:
divorce, ex-wife Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Renee okc  +, writes (26 June 2009):
He is living his life and you are sitting around waiting on him to call i think you should move on you are waisting your time he should at least call once a week and visit a couple of days a month then i would say ok well give him time Honey he isnt doing anything you need to move on it is not healthy for a child to see mom going through stress like this you have let that man control your life even if you dont know it for all you know he has another women or worse another family out here somewhere we all watch tv and know how sneaky people can be get a grip and move on and find a new man.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Gina , there has been contact just not physically, through sms and phone calls, i've also went to the movies this past weekend with another guy .
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Its your life........and your choices........what kind of partner you prefer......He is divorced how do you satisfy yourself he will not divorce you and what future you plan with this type of guy who cannot value relations and marriages.
Still you have time think for you kid and his future what kind of father he get and ...........all the best
...............................
|
