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female
age
30-35,
*imisoph3
writes:please someone help methis guy asked me out and i said yeswe never actually went out or hung out so i felt like it was pointless but i really do like him.then i told him that its useless and now its really awekward between us he keeps saying his bumed about me breaking up wit him and i keep telling him that i like him but we never hung out so its awekwarrd and he keeps saying his not mad his bummed.every morning he would texting me morning and he would always text me first now that i supposible broke up wit him i have to be the one starting conversations and it doesnt worrkk because he just does short answers.next month were going to hollywood for a acting and modelign compationion and today i found out his going at the same time and plane as me. so now i'm freaking out and i wanna crybecause i do like him,i think the reason im pushing him away is because i've never had a bf and i'm scareddis it faith that i met him at acting and modeling auditions to go to hollywood.is it faith that were going wit the same planei understand this is long but pleasee hellpp mewat do i doi told him i liked him he told my friend about this and now my friends on his sidei understand i was an idiot for saying that to him ughh i'm in tears now pleasee helpp me wat do i do
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reader, Teenage-Rebel  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 You are NOT an idiot!
i know how you feel as when i got my first boyfriend. i freaked out and had no idea what to do or say but i told him and he was fine with it
Don't worry about it...
what you need to say to him is that you do really like him but you have never been in a relationship before and your just freaking out a little because you don't know how to act.
telling him and giving the relationship a go or another go is better than feeling bad and crying.
trust me telling him how you feel is a good idea
hope this helps
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 You haven't done anything wrong and you arn't an idiot this is just a new experience for you and at your age its an uncomfortable and nervous experience. Just let him know how nervouse you are because you have never had a boyfriend and that you do like him and see what happens next, it can't be any worse then crying all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Try and pluck up the courage to tell him that you felt awkward and never had a boyfriend before. That way at least he will understand how you felt and why you acted that way.
Next time you feel self conscious, remember that it takes a lot of courage for a guy to approach a girl.
Hope this helps.
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