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writes:Hi there i need some advice , my kid is 7 years old i'm in a relationship with someone else not his dad, thing is my boyfriend and i have both been very busy with studies spent very little time together. My childs father is now married to his sugar mama he messed around with when he was still dating me, well he came to fetch his son for the weekend alone we sat and chatted up a storm he complained alot about how stupid he was to let me go and how sorry he is for hurting me so, he had it all and because of other things and people he lost me we were so close to making out good thing my son was in the room with us. I'm scared that i'm falling for him, i thought i was over him 5 years ago, what do i do, i thought i was Inlove with my current boyfriend, and he does so much for me, it's because of my current boyfriend i'm studying further. Reply to this Question
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reader, babymama99  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 I know that this man probaly brings back a lot of memories for you, as you have a lot of history together; but this man is MARRIED. he needs to resolve whatever is going on in his life before you start anything with him. He hurt you before and now he seems to be going down the same path with his wife. You are not a yo-yo he can't dump you and then change his mind.
Please don't ruin a great relationship with a man who is available, to be with a man who is NOT available. Currently he is taken, that was his choice and he needs to live with it, or resolve it.
At that point you can decide if he is worth your time. it seems to me that he has already shown that he can't be trusted to stay faithful, not to you or is wife. Of course he's going to feed you his sob story about his wife and hope you bite, and become his girl on the side.
You should pat him on the head, tell him you are sorry for his problems and to please lock the door on his way out.
You are not his therapist.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (25 June 2009):
 i cant tell u wat to do.but i feel like if u still love the childs dad then be wit him.but if u feel scared that he'll do it again then i shouldnt go back to him.it all depends if u want ur child to be happy wit a father and a mother back together that would be great for a child but depends if u want to be happy
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