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writes:my 18th birthday is coming up soon. previously i had been looking forward to spending time with my entire family as some of my other family members live overseas. unfortunately, my trip got cancelled and i was devastated as i was really looking forward to a good holiday break and birthday with my brother and my cousins. ive been hating school all of this year to the point where i wish i could just leave this country because of so called 'friends' bringing unnecessary drama into my life. when i think of my real friends i can say i have maybe a handful. i was so dissapointed over my cancelled trip and i had told my boyfriend all about my feelings about this, about school.and i have recently found out that he wont even be there most of the night because of a driving lesson. after telling him how i was not looking forward to my birthday anymore and how i didnt want to spend it alone, im really shocked and hurt that hes doing this. i have expressed this to him but he just says, dont worry ill still see you. i dont know if im being over clingy or childish, but this really hurts me. im not sure what to do now.
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reader, kelleeashton  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 im pretty sure he doesn't realize how bad your hurting and you are being a little clingy. your plans got ruined thats not his fault. he needs to put his driving lesson first and you need to support him in that and see if maybe you can re do your birthday the night after. i think your a little overly stressed about it. message me if you need to talk :)
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