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writes:Me in my BF been together for 7 years now we have a little girl and all but lately things have been really bad. We don't go out we are always arguing and tonight I was updating my face book status and one of my co workers must have seen that I was still awake from seeing when I updated my status and texted my cell asking why was I still up.. He's a guy so my boyfriend saw the text and now he's upset asking why was I texting guys at 2am I told him what happened and who the guy was I even called the guy so he could speak with him to let him know its nothing between us he just doesn't believe me and now he's not speaking to me he has left and I don't know where he is. What should I do to make him believe me? It just happened tonight.
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reader, Jadebed  +, writes (28 June 2009):
Gal, i dont intend to be mean but sometimes some guys look for the smallest thing to walk out of a relationship. Some might want to break it off but are cowards and dont have a reason so they'll sit and wait for an opportune time to burst out. So give it time and look if there have been any signs in the last few years.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 He'll be back when he cools down. I can understand him being upset as a 2am text seems irregular especially in a long term relationship. But still its not your fault and you have done nothing wrong. He will talk to you but this time be calm and speak quietly and slowly when you talk as panicky high pitch talk sounds like there is something to hide, its not just what you say but how you say it. Be calm and he will settle down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Honestly im not too experienced in this field. but shouldnt he trust you after 7 years,but i think he will realize his mistake and he will come back
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