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He thinks I'm pushing him away but I'm not!!!

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Question - (25 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my friend haven't been getting along for quite a long time now. Its mainly due to the fact that she puts me down a lot. I'm not exactly one of the most confident of people but she really makes me feel horrible. A couple of days ago we had our leaver's prom. She was really nasty to me all night and got even more annoyed when I came joint first for prom queen. (sorry i'm ranting on a bit) But what really annoyed me was when my boyfriend saw the pics he kept commenting on how good she looks and how beautiful she is. I know she's really beautiful and I'm glad he noticed it and didn't try to hide it but he didn't say one nice thing about me and kept criticising everything from what I was wearing to my hair and jewellery.

Last time I called him up on it, he had go at me saying that he only loves me and that I keep trying to push him away. I honestly don't but sometimes it feels like he'd rather be with somebody else. I don't know what to do. Shall I talk to him bout it again or just leave it be? Thanks for your help.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntsweety get out of there. he clearly wants your friend not you i mean he never said anything nice about you and there was TWO prom queens there not just the one. and as for her well she's obviously jealous of you because you are equally as pretty as her and your boyfriend doesn't have the right to say how "beautiful" this other girl is. she's your friend and he's your boyfriend he should be complimenting on how amazingly beautiful you looked not HER!!!

they deserve eachother or somethings already going on...

don't let this guy and this girl drag you down! you're better than that you can find someone so much better than that too :)

hope this helps x x x x ilovebowsandcherries x x x x

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