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I want to do something for my teacher... but what?

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Question - (25 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need help people!!! I'm in love with my special needs teacher, this has been going on for a while now. And I just graduated from high school, She is soooo incredibly sexy! And so nice to me. When we first met we didn't get along very well, but then a year later we had a 1 on 1 class. We talked, laughed, told jokes, stories and almost anything we could think of. I'm a blues rock guitarist and she likes the same music I listen to also, guys like Lynyrd Skykyrd, Van Halen, Neil Young, Bob Seger all them musical greats. But I'm 17 and she's 32! She took me out for lunch as treat to where I was graduating, she also gave me a grad card that said inside "I am so proud of you". She did something for me.....I wanna do something for her!!! But what??? I really really need advice!!!!!

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A male reader, citic101 France +, writes (28 June 2009):

citic101 agony auntwhy dont you play a song for her on You Tube to thank her for all the help she has given you

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A female reader, mitta United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2009):

Firstly congratulations on graduating!

Now down to buisness... Are you hoping to persue a sexual kind of relationship with your teacher? Im not sure this would be a very good idea.

There is a big age gap, but more importantly she was your teacher and would face alot of criticism for having a relationship with you even though you have now graduated. Also you may possibly be mistaking her kindness for something more.

What are your plans now that you have graduated? You have grown close to your teacher as she gave you lots of attention and took interest in you during school. There are plenty of girls out there who are probably better suited to you. A relationship with your teacher would be frought with complications and this would make it very difficult and hard to enjoy being together.

As for doing something nice for her, just do something simple like buy some flowers or something, i wouldn't ask her out or anything.

Im sorry if you dont like my advice but I always try to be honest and give the best advice I can.

HTH and all the best!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

thats so cute the same thing happened with me in college with my english teacher , he was so hot we talked so many times but our connection became so rare after graduation i guess this connection between you and your teacher will occur only while you are at school with her but when you will be away all this will go away too , try to know what she likes and give it to her because a gift may say a lot about you and may change a lot of things between you too , good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

Record-a-cd-of-you-playing-your-favourite-songs

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