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writes:i was married for 24 years and the first of the year my husband left me for a younger woman. He is 50 and she is 19 and illegal to top it off over 6 months pregnant. Does not take a rocket scientist to figure out the he was sleeping with the both of us at the same time. I hear that his drinking is out of control and has started using drugs. Pepe will not take any financial responsibility with my 17 year old daughter nor any of the bills that he left. I was evicted almost lost my car and had to split my family to live until i can find a home for all of us to be together. What are your opinions on this, will this relationship work??? I guess as hard as it is to handle, he did me a favor by leaving..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): maybe its time for a divorce as well, let his new mistress take care of the drunk. right now you should prioritise you and your childs life. at least you don't to worry about him anymore. his young thing will get someone better soon but plse don't hold your breathe, she may want to hold on tp the miserable one for a while. you need to get on with your life. and you will. i think you have survived the worse thus far, and you are strong. your life has so much of possibilities and please grab them.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 I agree, see legal advice to make him face up to his responsibilities and then thank your lucky stars he has gone. Start living for yourself and your children. Forget whether his relationship works out, it will just cause you more pain and seriously do you really want him back in your life when he has sunk to such low levels??
I hope you find some peace.
Aunty Em xxxxx
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