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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I had sex 1 month into our relationship and we were both virgins. It really hurt the first time but we didn't use any foreplay and I was pretty nervous so I think these are the main reasons. We have now been going out for over 8 months now and even with foreplay it still hurts in certain positions it feels like it's hitting something and it gives me a strong senstaion of needing to pee.I'd like to hear some opinions because I have no idea why I feel like this,it's not a nice feeling and we sometimes have to stop sex because of this. :S Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): You might be a squirter
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Many young women experience what they sense as a need to urinate when becoming sexually aroused. Young men also feel a similar sensation when approaching ejaculation, but in reality, it is almost impossible for either gender to urinate during a high state of arousal. With experience and maturity, both women and men quickly learn to recognize the difference between the need to pee and approaching orgasm.
Based on experience and in my opinion, both men and women normally ejaculate during orgasm. There are exceptions, but let's talk normal. Obviously, male ejaculation is quite apparent, but most women release at least some amount of fluid, perhaps more often just a little bit. It tends to become mixed in with all the natural lubricants, along with male ejaculate, and therefore may be unnoticed to many.
In any case, I agree with "Ginalolabridga" that emptying the bladder makes anyone feel more confidence and comfort prior to sexual activities. But your sensation is typically a misunderstood feeling associated with sexual arousal, and hopefully an approaching climax. You'll get used to it. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): There's something wrong with you! You should go to the drs. My friend had that same feeling and went to the Dr and found out that because she was holding her pee when she was having sex made her bladder worse. Go get checked!!
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