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writes:My boyfriend just jumped me for my best friend. He says she led him on and that he loves her buh he also loves me. He said he can not lie about it and hurt me any more than he already has and that he'd rather be honest wit me :( She told him she could never be with him and that she would never do that to me. So he said he wantd me back and that he loves me so much. Should i believe him? Should i take him back?To make matters worse, my best friend's ex txt me that nyt. He was so mean to my best friend when they were going out and we all hated him for what he did to her. My (ex) boyfriend and him hate eachother aswell. But he was just so nice to me and made me feel so much better. He's the only one that really cared.Now my best friend is mad at me for texting her ex and my (ex) boyfriend has asked me not to talk to the other boy anymore.The other boy told me not to get back with my boyfriend because he thinks he is just using me and that he only wants me back because he couldnt have my best friend! That really hurt. I mean i dont want to believe that. :'( Im so confussed, i dont know what to do. Its all a big mess. My life's a big mess. I need help. I really dont know what to do. HELP.... please :'(xoxoxo
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reader, xcharlottex +, writes (25 June 2009):
We don't know the reason he's said that to you, as we don't know him, we can only go on what you've told us in words, which you would've already known the answer, because you're the one writing the words! see how that works! he could very well love you, but what future do you see knowing he loves your best friend aswell? this boy is clearly confused. You can do better.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (25 June 2009):
 hun as much as you and your friend hate her ex he's right your ex is only coming back because your best friend blew him off because she wouldn't do that to you.
and you should definately not go out with her ex it's the same thing you shouldn't go out with him because of what he did to her and because it's your friend!
"He says she led him on and that he loves her buh he also loves me. He said he can not lie about it and hurt me any more than he already has and that he'd rather be honest wit me :(
She told him she could never be with him and that she would never do that to me. So he said he wantd me back and that he loves me so much. "
all that there is the answer, he says she led him on! please! she's saying no to him how can she lead him on?
he'd rather be honest with you?
then she told him she could never be with him and that she wouldn't do that to you so he said he wanted you back...?
it's because he got rejected by your friend and he got nowhere else to go hun he knows you still got feelings for him if she never rejected him he'd never have bothered you at all.
you need to keep away from him and also from your mates ex it should be you and her against the world. not you getting with her ex and then her getting with yours! not right.
that's not friendship and he is just using you because he can't have what he wanted which by the sounds of it was your mate.
anyways you're better than both of them boys! you and your friend!
hope this helps hun x x x x ilovebowsandcherries x x x x
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Both boys are using you and your best friend should have known better, a lot better. Give your boyfriend a miss there are plently of guys out there who would easily fall in love with you, appreciate and value you. You can do a lot better..someone unexpected will come into your life very soon.
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