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male
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30-35,
*ordzz
writes:Hi all,First the background. I've been dating my g/f for about ten months now so we are pretty serious, firstly I asked her out but as she'd been hurt before she said no and just wanted to remain friends, but the fact I actaully did stay m8s with her and didnt just go looking for another girl made her realise that she did want me after all. Another point I must stress is that she was ready to give up dating but made an exception for me, not to be bigheaded, this is just what she has said. She is 25 and I am 20 btw. So, the problem is that I realy love her and care about her, I know she does about me back but I dont think I fancy her anymore, like we still have sex etc but when I look at her body I dont feel turned on like I used to and Ive started masturbating alot more and am thinking of sleeping with other women etc, not actually doing it but imagining it. I'm torn between just telling her this and being honest, yeah she'll probably hate me and yes it will break her heart so badly but its the honest thing to do. Or I feel I really should stick at it for a bit longer cos I owe her that much and see what happens bearing in mind ive been feeling like this for about 2 weeks maybe. I really want this relationship to work and would try anything. Any ideas/help would very much be appreciated.Thank-you for any response,Jordan x Reply to this Question
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reader, Wreck  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 break up with her... you wouldnt like it if another girl that you "loved" pretended she loved you back..... , I did it to my ex girl i stayed with her even thhough i didnt like her because I didnt want to break her heart... , but at the end it was just better to let her go because all I was doing was having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Heyzy. You sound like a really nice guy.
What I suggest is you try different ways
to make the relationship more comfortable
for you and her. Try to spice it up a bit.
If it doesn't work out, and you really
don't feel that way about her, be honest.
She will thank you for it in the end. Good luck. I
hope things work out for you and your girlfriend
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