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writes:Ok so there is this boy that I have been with for the past three years, on and off. We have broken up numerous times over little things but we never stay broken up for more than a day or two, if it gets a little more serious then maybe a week. I am just so tired of the fighting and alot of it has to do with my insecurities. I always assume that he is cheating on me, or wants other girls, because he cheated on me when we first got together I just dont know how to fully trust him again and to get over myself. Now our relationship is hanging on by a thread and I dont want to lose him, how do i get our relationship back without the trust issues and insecurities I have. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Just think, when he did cheat on you (as hard is it might be) he obviously didn't enjoy it because he's still with you. He still wants you and even though your relationship is 'hanging by a thread' he's still there, trying to make things work. I know this because I had the same problem.
Just think positively, he's with you, trying to make things work.
You could try discussing things that upset you and make you paranoid and try working on them, both of you.
You need support from him and you need to trust him. If there isn't trust what is there?
Things will work out if you give them time.
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