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writes:I was dating a guy for 3 years and we broke up. We didn't speak for 3 months and I emailed him last week and he responded briefly. After that I saw in a couple of times in work and he wouldn't look at me or say hello. I got upset and sent him an email that I needed to move on. I wish I hadn't done this now.What should I do? I think he is confused and angry regarding my email.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (26 June 2009):
Sometimes when we're angry, we will do things without thinking. And at the time that's what you knew you needed to do, right? That you need to move on. I can see how you would regret it later because you're probably thinking that it will ruin the chances of anything in the future. But if you two haven't spoken in 3-months, that's a pretty long time. And I really think you should move on. It is what it is, and I don't think you should bother trying to write him again. There's no need to apologize for anything. If he's going to ignore you and act like you don't exist then screw him! Do the same to him. You have better things to do and new guys to meet! Don't dwell on him. I know it's frustrating and the feeling of rejection sucks. But for now, just leave him be. If he wants you, he'll come after you.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (26 June 2009):
am i confused why would you email him after 3 months then turn around and say you need to get over him if i were him i would be confused to because if you felt this way why contact him at all and why do you care if he speaks to you or not you are a grown women get over it and move on and stop sending mixed singles either you want to be with him or not and by this time he probably isnt responding to you because he feels that you are playing games and i cant say i blame him , people i dont want in my life i dont talk too period.
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 I think the only thing you can really do at this point is completely move on with your life. Forget him, look to the future and what it holds for you :)
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