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writes:Ok so i have a difficult decision, go back to my ex or stay with my current bf? Ive been with this guy for about 2 weeks and hes really sweet and all but now my ex has told me he wants me back and i want him so bad now. Last time we spilt up because he was a player and i felt insecure with him. But i really love both guys and idk what i should. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009): okayyy, i was gonna post this question too lol.
im the same age as you, and have the same problem.
i was dating a player back and forth, on and off for almost two years, and nothing was ever going to change no matter how many times we broke up. hes a player, and players wont change their ways. best bet is to move on, and stay with this new guy.
i really hope this helps,
ooo and try not to talk to the ex, it really helps :D
-ashh
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reader, Kalyov  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 No!
I have dealt with players, it is not fun. I kept going back and just kept getting hurt. Don't do this to yourself, get away from him. I know it is hard, I still really care about the guy that plaid me but we have only talked once since November...I would love to talk to him more but I know that if I try I could get sucked back into his games which I don't want to be, it was stressful and I am tired of crying...don't do this. Stay with your current guy!
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Its natural to miss your ex but you will probably go back to being insecure if you get back with him. I would not get back with him players = bad news
Stay with your boyfriend just now and see how it does
:)
hope this helped :P
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reader, mitta +, writes (26 June 2009):
Not to cound patronizing, but you are very young.
You shouldnt be with either of these guys. You should leave the guy you're with now as you obviously dont 'love' him that much if you are now pining over your ex... and 2 weeks isnt really a serious realtionship!
Definitely dont go back to the 'player' as he probably only wants you back because you're with someone else now. Im guessing hes a similar age to you so isnt too bothered about 'settling' down and changing his ways!
just be young and have fun. Dont worry about boys too much, you'll have plenty of tie for that when you're older!
HTH
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (26 June 2009):
you are to young to love these guys honey you are rushing it and why is the question why do you need to go out with anyone and if your ex is a player why would you trust him now he probably only wants you back because you are with someone if you were single and chasing him he wouldnt want you so i think you should take some time and be honest with both guys and then make a decision for some reason i dont trust the ex all that much not yet because of the fact that he is a player time is the cure here and dont play with your current bf feelings because you could bite your own foot off.
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reader, Blod +, writes (25 June 2009):
 I don't think you should rush back to your ex. He's your ex for a reason. And don't mess things up with your current bf before you've even given him a chance. You might regret it. Whatever you choose just be careful and think about it first. Don't get carried away with how you feel. Good luck X
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): stay with your current bf, you and your ex split up for a reason, if it was meant to be you wouldnt have...
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Stay with the newest, once a player always a player.
If you don't believe in that saying then at least wait until there's proof that he's 'changed'.
If you don't get with him, which you shouldn't, just wait and see if he finds someone else cos you turned him down. Then you'll see if he's changed or not.
Maybe it isn't you he wants, he just wants somebody, and your better than that, which is why you shouldn't go back to him.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Stcik with the guy you are with now. Chances are high yoru ex only wants you back NOW because you're with someone else and you always want what you can't have. If you really want to dump your curren bf for another guy then you're not worth dating your bf. He deserves to be with someone who actually cares and wont ditch just because an ex is begging at the door.
Make your choices and stick to them.
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