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*thompdb
writes:My ex girlfriend is dating a good friend of mine 2 weeks after I broke up with her. Why? She told me she loved me first, and I told her otherwise untill about a week later. I broke up with her because I was afraid She was going to break up with me. The next day I was really upset and said she never really cared. I started talking to her a week later like nothing happened, but she was really dating and fooling around with him the whole time. While all of this was happening, I told her I still had feelings for her, and she responded by telling me she had the same feelings. Then I said I was thinking about her alot, and she replied with "you are constantly on my mind also." She would constantly lie to me about not being with him, but all my friends knew she was and told me. I forced it out of my good friend ( not my friend anymore) and confronted her once again, and she told me she lies to protect me. I told my ex that we can't be friends for a long time, and she rebuttled with, "our friendship runs deeper than you know." why would she lie to me after all of this, and date this guy while she was telling me she missed me. I even asked if there was a chance we could get back togethor and she said I don't know yet. She wrecked my truck and totalled it, and offered to pay the deductable. A few days ago I asked her for her dads number so he could pay the deductable while she slowly payed her dad back, and she told me to suck a dick, and that she doesn't owe me shit. She tested me a couple weeks before that telling me she found a job, and can finally start paying my family back, who bought me the truck. The next day, she called me saying once again, that our friendship runs deep, and was talking to me like nothing ever happened when I asked for her dads number. I told her it would be best for her not to talk to me anymore, and stay away from me. Why is she doing this? Is she just trying to make me feel jelouse for breaking up with her? Is she just trying to piss me off? Why?
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reader, Gthompdb +, writes (27 June 2009):
Gthompdb is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice. I don't want to pay to have her number blocked, so I just deleted her number, and will try to just ignore her phonecalls.
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reader, Gthompdb +, writes (25 June 2009):
Gthompdb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe wrecked my tuck when I let her borrow it, so she could go to a very important school dinner. She was invited by her professor, who invited very few students, meaning she is a great student. I gladly let we borrow my truck because one of her favorate authors was going to be at the dinner also. On her way she was clipped from behind by a car resulting in her running into a telephone pole, totalling my truck as a result. She told me she would love to help pay what she can. The state law of texas says that since I lent her my keys, and the car is filed under my name, my insurance has to cover it. She told me that she got a job at chillis, and could finally start paying me back. All I asked for was the deductable. She told me some cruel and hatefull things when I recently confronted her about the money situation. She called me the next day and apologized, but I didn't want to hear it and called her out on going back on her word. She got defensive and said she doesn't have to do anything, along with some other bull crap. I ended the conversation with, I don't want to talk to you, and I told you not to contact me anymore. She texted me right after I hung up on her and she said sorry. What should I say, because she has convinced herself she has done nothing wrong.
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (25 June 2009):
 I think she's trying to annoy you, she loves the attention, she loves you running back to her, making her feel like she's worth something.Leave her alone, block her number and any other ways of contact.Good luck x
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