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writes:Dear CupidMy bf would be nice to me for few days if i lend him money. Then again he starts avoiding me. Will again be attentive when he needs money. I tried talking to him and he says he'll chnage but never did. He works and gets good pay too. He is not into drugs, he is paying most of his money for mortage and hence gets money from me for his expenses. Please help me, i feel like being used.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): Wow, he can get a mortgage, and needs you to give him money?! Dump him quick-- you're enabling him. He doesn't respect you, and never will. He's a leech, a parasite.
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reader, LizBeth +, writes (25 January 2011):
You wrote, "Please help me, i feel like being used." You feel that way because you ARE being used. Please, please, please get away from this guy. He wants your money and that is all. Do not give him any more money and write this off as an expensive lesson.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Give him a check and make sure it bounces :-).
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reader, Mature Lady  +, writes (25 January 2011):
You did not say whether your boyfriend and you live together or not,if you do then the expenses of running the home should be shared between you,if not then I agree too that he is using you and you should think seriously about getting into a relationship with him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 January 2011):
He's only with you for the money, nothing else. Please get away from him. That's the only advice anyone can offer I think.
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