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writes:Long story short, my guy broke up with me. I don't understand why, we seemed perfectly fine until he pulled the plug. We broke up Friday and we had a conversation this morning. He seemed really confused and hesitant over everything he had to say (Which was really nothing...)... and to be completely honest, I don't think this is the end for us.Something's telling me not to give up on him, that I just need to give him time.So I went home and did something I've never done before. I called a couple psychics. Longer story short, both illustrated my situation without me having to explain it, and the first woman I spoke with sensed that it's not finished yet. That we have communication issues (something we're not clearly able to get across to each other), that she can sense us getting back together, that he got frightened of something, that I need to hang in there and stick it out, that he still wants me in his life and still wants to talk to me, that no matter what he says, I should believe the best.The second psychic I am more skeptical about. She readily told me that our relationship isn't finished yet. She can see that he got scared of his feelings that developed toward me in such a short amount of time and got frightened by it. Therefore causing him to pull back, and me to step forward, which scared him even more. She also told me that she saw us getting back together in March. That I should do nothing in the mean time, focus on myself. Because he'll come to me. My question then is what do you guys think? I've never really believed in spiritualism, but it was uncanny how both women knew my situation without me describing it. And on top of that, from a guy's perspective, would it benefit me or hurt my case even more to text messages like "Good Night" or "Good Morning?"
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Couldn't have said it better than Jmtmj.
The psychic thing is not real and they're just feeding your need for this relationship to continue. One useful thing you were told was to focus on yourself now.
People who have been hurt will cling onto anything that promises them that things will get better. You don't want this relationship to be over so you're making yourself believe that it's not over yet, looking to anything to validate your wishful thinking.
No one gets scared of their feelings. It's an excuse. He's got doubts about you and he thinks he wants to explore other options...so he's 'confused.'
And I'm not a guy but the thing is he let you go, he basically said I don't want to be with you anymore. Why would you text someone good nights and good mornings who doesn't want to be with you? I don't get it.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (25 January 2011):
 They make their money by making generalizations that everybody can relate to, its psychology, but it ain't psychic.
How many people who call psychic lines do you think have just come out of a relationship...? 90% or more? So its a pretty safe bet that if you sound sad on the phone that its either a death or a break up. Who calls a psychic when everything in their life is peachy anyways?
Catching what I'm throwing?
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