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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I have a crush on this certain guy. I liked him since the day we met and it's really getting too complicated because he is my rival in our class standing. Although I can compete rationally without getting my feelings mixed up, when it comes to being together with him, I can just feel the space closing in and our limitations being together are all piled up as if though it will never be getting thinner by the day. Then without warning, I suddenly got a message from my friend. That certain friend of my knew my feelings for this guy, then that guy confessed to one of his friends together with my friend as they were walking together that he liked me. He got a crush on me. I was totally shocked after hearing this! Then I remembered our moments together as if it was really my fantasy world. But the problem is, he can't confessed to me yet because we are still studying and that he is not too ready about this things. But something tells me that I should wait for him. Like what I did for the past years because he is certain for me. If I could only wait for him. He can't love me completely yet because he is afraid that he might not have the balanced love for his mother if he loved me. Family is important so I understand him. But the problem is there is also this guy who's been courting me for the same years as I wait for this guy. He won't stop even though I already told him that I have already someone I loved. Can you help me? Should I wait for the guy who also likes me or should I just go on with the guy who's been courting me for years? Please help.
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reader, Snowshoe  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 remember to stop and breath. Chances are that neither boy will be right. I don't want to sound harsh but at 18-21 yrs life has an intensity that can confuse simple issues. If you are still at the courting stage then don't let yourself be cornered by either young man. Make them work for your affections. You sound like a strong capable woman. Don't be afraid to find the courage needed to discover who and what is best for you. You aren't engaged or married to either one and therefore have not made a commitment to either one. I say enjoy being courted and let the best man win.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): You shouldn't go out with the second guy, plain and simple he isn't the guy you want.
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