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Every time I leave I end up coming back!

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Question - (24 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ovestruckash writes:

I want to leave a bad relationship w a man I love dearly we have a 4 month old daughter how can I go thru with this? Everytime I leave I end up coming back

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A male reader, CJH United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2011):

CJH agony auntIf you cant do this for yourself, do it for your daughter.

Children pick up on things far more than we think. Shes going through the misery with you each and every time.

Be strong, tell yourself you and your child deserve a better life and just go for it.

One thing that may help you is to write down a list of all of the bad things about the relationship. Then, when you feel a weak moment coming on and you want to go back, pull that list out and remind yourself of the reasons its shouldnt happen.

Good luck. Life does get better and the pain of any breakup does subside in the end - provided to stick to your guns and remain true to yourself.

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