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*adien
writes:I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or just some support. Maybe both. I'm a 26yr old male dating a 21 yr old girl. We have a good relationship, we hang out often, play games, watch movies. She is currently in college and this certainly stresses her out some, but in the past not too long ago we were having a lot more sex. It's not so much the lack of sex as the feeling getting turned down again and again. We only have sex about 1/5th as much as we use to. I mean I know some people on here are going months without something physical, and it's not so much the amount of sex but feeling like I'm not sexy anymore, not wanted, and not having my passionate feelings returned.When we do have sex it is very good, we both have orgasms and fun and each time it seems like things are going to get better afterward but they don't. We've been together for about a year and a half, for the last two months we've been having a lot less sex. I guess one of the big reasons I'm worried is one of my previous relationships went like this and I was unhappy for almost 3 years with the relationship but I stayed hoping the sex would come because I loved her. I don't want to have this happen again, but don't want to leave the girl.
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reader, Cadien +, writes (30 January 2011):
Cadien is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the reply. Is there anyone out there who has been in a long term relationship where the sex stayed strong throughout? \i know there will always be ups and downs...
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