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writes:Hello, I've been having a problem lately.I'm 18 years old, and I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months. We've had sex since a few times its not that I'm nervous because I'm not new to this, but I've been not able to get fully hard, and when I do get hard I get soft really easy, sometimes I even get soft while being in her.It makes her feel terrible about herself, and makes me feel terrible about myself cause I can't keep it up..What should I do? Should I take Argentine? I'm pretty fit, And I only masturbate maybe once a week. I'll be super horny, and My girlfriend is Really hot, it Just wont get up...Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe turns me on plenty! And I'll be extremely horny and I want it! But, it just won't get up. But thanks I might try that.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 fatigue and stress can affect our libido and erection strength and believe it or not too much masturbation before intercourse the same day can cause issues too cut down on how often you masturbate as well and make sure your resting well to reduce fatigue levels and then see how you go with it again.
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reader, clarebear  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 My boyfriend used to have the same problem, but we tried a couple of things to help, and now we have an amazing sex life.
Firstly, make sure you get a decent amount of sleep, and don't ware yourself out too much before. Being tired may be a big cause in this.
Secondly, does she turn you on enough? If she's up for it, get some sexy lingerie, or find different ways to experiment and find out things you enjoy.
Just make sure you're relaxed and still ready for this. It helps if you're girlfriend accepts you for who you are, and understands you.
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