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He gets softer when giving me oral!

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Question - (24 January 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *anox writes:

My boyfriend loves me giving him oral sex, however i love him eating me out.. But he doesn't tend to enjoy it as he gets abit softer when he does it..

Am i doing anything wrong?

What do i to make surs he enjoys giving me oral sex?

Thakyou. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

IM a girl and as much as i love 69...i cant concentrate on giving and getting....soo i get so into giving him oral i dont think about me..so it happens both ways but on guys you can tell on girls you cant hehe... i also loveeee watching my mans face when i go down on him and i cant do that in a 69. So dont worry about it its normal... :)

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A female reader, Hanox United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

Hanox is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Hanox agony auntThankyou very much :-) xx.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (25 January 2011):

Illithid agony auntI'm a guy that loves to give oral so much that I absolutely would rather eat a girl than receive oral. It turns me on like crazy to eat out, but I get soft in the middle of it. Why? I'm very focused on what I'm doing and my body starts to realize I'm not paying it any attention. I still love what I'm doing though.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011):

No your not doing anything wrong. Just relax and enjoy yourself. The reason he's going soft is because he's focusing all of his attention on you and not on himself. Its normal trust me, it happens to me. Be happy that your bf loves giving you oral.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

Robin Williams had the best line ever to describe this:

- A man has two brains, but only enough blood to reach one of the other.

Meaning that when your boyfriend is focused on you, his body won't function elsewhere! So, maybe grip him or talk dirty to him or try the 69 as the post below says. Other than that, he kind of needs to understand that his brain and penis won't always work together at the same time.

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A male reader, Bluesi United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

This may sound obvious but try the 69, you can both give and recieve oral at the same time. Try telling him how much you like it while he gives you oral this may turn him on even more. The main thing is that you both enjoy what you are doing to each other

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