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writes:My boyfriend of 2 years has just joined the army and has been away for the past 2 months and will be for another 4. We are trying to keep our relationship alive and are fine just filling each other in about our days and what not, but occasionally we will get into a little bit of raunchy conversation and i love this but am running out of ideas of what to say to him, have already exhausted all different sexual scenarios i can think of and don't want to get bored just repeating the same sort of words over and over again.Any ideas how i could think of more words to use to turn him on ect..
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 I ran into the same issue before... the thing I learned was that it doesn't need to sound like you're reading a romance novel (though they can have good ideas to talk about). Just saying what you want or miss, plainly, can be awesome too. You don't need a thesaurus to look up fifty different ways to say "have sex" if you can just tell him that you miss him and would love to pounce on him and that you really need his touch.
If you want to get poetic though... you could always try googling up sex stories and seeing how amateur writers describe things...
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reader, Bluesi +, writes (24 January 2011):
As difficult as this may seem it can be easily remedied. Try to remember how excited you were when you first met and use the same kind of language ie shy, tentative, and excited. In other words restart your relationship all over again and get your fella to want you more and more, build up the sexual tension till you need to release. Or you could just read some erotic material and pick up a few new words and phrases. Good luck either way.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 January 2011):
 Maybe pick up some harlequin romance novels, they might give you some good ideas. It's hard to suggest new ideas without first knowing what you've already done.
Really though, guys are pretty simple. We just want you enthusiastic and telling us how much you want us, what you want to do, and how you want it done. "I love the way your warm c**k feels as it teases the outside of my wet p***y... The anticipation is killing me!"
You could always try calling a phone sex line, but that might be a pretty expensive way to do research.
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