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writes:Dear Cupid: I've met a man recently. We're both in our early 50's. We have much in common, we have much of the same likes and dislikes, however we still remain individual. I have fallen head over heals with him. I have all but told him this and I have a feeling his feels the same, but, he wants to take it slowly - I am ready now! I can wait as I think it will go in the direction of where I want it to go, but he's not there yet. We haven't had sex yet, but we have touched and felt and seen each other naked. He also has light sexual encounters with other guys as well. He tells me I'm different. We kiss and hug, snuggle and enjoy each others' company. My question is: should I wait for him to catch up to me and the way I feel? I think of him all the time! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): I would take it easy. Don't declare undying love just yet. It can be put someone off if your feelings are too strong too early. So wait until you feel there is a balance between you. And let things gradually develop.
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reader, CJH  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 If your feelings are real of course he`s worth waiting for!
Nobody can promise you anything but you say you think and feel its going to go the way you want it so calm down man! Enjoy the emotions youre experiencing and enjoy the relationship as it is.
Take it easy with him too, allow him the time and space to catch up with you or he will just turn and run. Theres nothing worse than being pressured in any relationship.
Stop worrying and enjoy.
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