I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.

A female age 30-35, *oxokelly writes:

Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it go and it comes back to you its yours it not it never was. In June, we started talking again and became reaquinted and he stopped talking to the other girl. In July, she came and said she was pregnant and she was sure it was his. I was real upset about this but I figured we could handle this. Plus, he said he didnt want to act on it yet until he was for sure the baby was his. In september, his mother passed away and he lost it all and i tried being there for him but he broke up with me again saying he needed space. In October, he had a dream from his mother and father(who died in 2007) saying he needed to take care of whats his. So he started talking to the female again and going to doctor appointments, they talked about getting a place together so he could be around for the baby all the time. While him and her were doing all of this me and him were still talking and i didnt know about all of this. When i found out i called her and told about his bad ways naturally she didnt believe me. one day he was talking to his friend and she was on the other line and he ratted him out about chilling with me weeks before. she got mad and he went to her house late night trying to comfort her and say he was sorry. he left because he was tired of fighting. she called the cops and said he broke into her house and that he was loud. he got arrested and hes in jail with charges of third degree burglary and inconvience annoyance. she admitted that she lied and made it up to me. but she refuses to admit it to the legal system due to shes pregnant and doesnt want to risk her child or get in trouble. he called me and i added minutes to talk to him, but should i forgive him and give him another chance? i do love him and i do want to be with him but theres no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again. he said hes so sorry and hes written me so many letters and proven hes sorry but no i forgive him?

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