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writes:I'm with my bf for almost 9months..he is the most caring and loving guy i've ever met!he had a gf before me and that girl cheated on him and he suffered a lot..but now he has health problems! suffers from anxiety ,wakes up every night a couple of times,his heart has an irregular beat ..and all because of that girl! can really someone affect u this much ?or he is like this because he couldnt forget her?he talked about her once ..when we started dating and he reminded like 2-3times until then about how selfish that girl was but thats all! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys for ur answers !
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): "can really someone affect u this much"
Yes, and the more trusting you have been, the more hurtful it is to be betrayed.
You eventually get over it, but it can take a while, and he may be worried about trusting again because it can happen again.
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reader, clarebear +, writes (24 January 2011):
 I have nightmares and panic attacks because of my ex boyfriend. I thought he was amazing at first, but then he got violent. If anything reminds me of him, i feel physically sick and worthless.
It helps that I have a new guy in my life, who's so caring and sweet, always calms me down and reminds me that he's gone and he's never coming back.
As long as you're there with him, he will get through it.
Goodluck.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 Sometimes it can but then you learn for your own piece of mind no woman is worth the heart ache and trouble and you overcome this mediocre problems the exceptions being his condition with his heart beat thats more than likely genetic he was more than likely born with that condition.
All you can do is try to reassure him not every woman is going to be like that and to be honest if he still has hang ups over a woman he shouldnt have got involved with you until he resolved his problems for that isnt fair on you.
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