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writes:ok need to straighten thoughts in my head,my girlfriend of 3 years is and allways has been quite open but more so in last 6 or so months mainly in the fact that she seems to like telling me about guys that fancy her and want her etc,nothing has changed in our relationship we have sex very regular and go out together lots but i am getting the feeling she likes to make me jealous which it has been doing due to becoming more graphic,she told me about when she was out at weekend two guys asked her to go down an alleyway with them-fair enough it happens and she is very good looking and busty,but to make it worse she then said 'well just imagine if id have said yes and gone with them'.why is she doing this? i asked her and she said its nothing and why should it bother me
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 Yeah sit her down and tell her this bothers you...after the response you got from her last time you think the result will be any different? Don't be surprised when she tells you about all your best buddies hitting on her when you aren't around too, and how that shouldn't bother you....Listen...She is testing the waters to see how much she can get away with and how eager you are to wear a blazing stamp of DOORMAT across your forehead...for all you know she DID go down that Alleyway(which is more likely than not...probably trying to put into your head that there is no truth to an upcoming nasty rumor through somebody you know....mark my words...)Only people who tempt fate bring stuff up like that. You already know guys are hitting on her....you can rest assured she is going to act on it...Come on man, you can't be this much in denial...get rid of her...she is sending a smoke signal across the canyon that she is a gonna cheat on you if given the opportunity...which apparently are endless...and go get yourself tested for STDs TODAY!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): She is checking to see if you are bothered if other people find her attractive. Are you paying her enough attention? When you have been with each other a few years it is easy not to put as much effort into things.
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reader, CJH +, writes (24 January 2011):
 It really doesnt matter why it bothers you, the fact is it does and she needs to understand that.
Sit her down and explain that it really does upset you. Ask her how she would feel if you told her in grim detail about every offer you get from pretty women? OK so you may need to be a little inventive there - I dont know?
Point is, she needs to know how it feels and then maybe she will aprreciate the fact that you just dont want to hear this rubbish.
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