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writes: my husband will not stop looking at woman with low cut tops on. it is anyone not just attractive woman. when i question him he always denies it.i am getting so frustrated because i no he is doing this.please can you help as i think i am going made. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): My ex wife used to say that,when they looked at me i (I should be so lucky) it was then me encouraging it.Most of the time i didnt even know who she meant. Funny how the insecure types always turn out to be the most dishonest,untrustworthy and somehow believe they didnt do anything wrong. Do men ever look at you?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): My wife also acuse me staring at some women. The truth is I'm not aware of that. It might be looking a nice shoe or cloth at a shope. He denied because he is not doing it intentionally. I'm syre if he see the same girl in the next day he doesn't remember her. It is just looking at a beauty not the beutiful girl herself. If he try to make eye contacts then he is in trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): Maybe you should start looking at (and remarking about) younger men with nice, tight butts! Give him a dose of his own medicine and, at the same time, start enjoying the scenery. ;]
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (25 January 2011):
That's like getting upset that your husband won't stop breathing air. Seriously, it's unfair for men to catch hell for looking when women are out there showing it off. What are we supposed to do? We're men. We're attracted to women. We look at other women, even when we are in committed relationships. We're not cheating when we look. We're not thinking of cheating when we look. We're simply looking. It's almost a biological reflex and is not meant as any disrespect to the one were with. My theory is you should start to worry when he stops looking.
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reader, Mature Lady +, writes (25 January 2011):
Most men cannot not keep their eyes off a womans cleavage,there is no harm in looking,as long as he is not touching and is faithful to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): I look at women who reveal,they reveal for attention. My girlfriend knows i`m a randy little devil and doesnt get jealous and isnt insecure.and i put my cards on the table at the start. She knows I1m a perv. She is cool about it. If a hunky guy walks past you,no shirt,good body,i know you wouldnt look.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Have you thought that he doesn't consciously do it?
I'm female and absent mindedly find myself looking into a cleavage or at a nice pair of legs because it is a visual attraction. It is simply natural for eyes to be drawn to that place.
Give him a break, he's probably embarrassed which is why he denies it!
You're going to have to make sure you go to places where women wear turtlenecks if you want him to stop looking at cleavages!
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