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writes:I never thought this would be an issue, but my girlfriends is sex addict. She wants to have sex at least two times a day or as much as possible. I mean our record is 8 times a night.So to my problem. I really enjoyed this in the first few moths of our relationship, but since we are together for almost year and a half I am getting really tiered. I mean I am studying for exams all day plus I have to work. So when I get home around 7pm I am pretty much beat and I just want to cuddle. But she's always horny and when I say NO she's just really unhappy and nervous and kinda angry.I am planning about talking to her about it but I am worried that if I wont satisfy her she might cheat on me.I trust her. But one time we had a week break from each other and she was just so horny she was literally begging me to have sex with her.And I am worried if she's going to have a girls night out after this sort of separation she might cheat.I am also thinking about suggesting therapy to her because I can't keep up with her libido.I really need advice on how to deal with all this.Ps: my last girlfriend cheated so that might be from where all the paranoia is coming from.Thanks for help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Mmm, i dont know, therapy might work but you would have to be careful that you don't give your girlfriend the impression that you don't want to have sex with her. ADHD decreases with age ( I think ) so it may get better as you go on..
Think yourself lucky that she wants sex, some peoples partns don't like sex! Hehe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe does have multiple orgasms when we have sex and believe me I usually dont do any work. It's that she got ADHD, so she's hyper and she needs to sleep for like six hours and she totally rested. I would like to ask if the therapy might help? Or if there is anything that can decrease her sex drive ?
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (25 January 2011):
Does she orgasm every time you have sex? Because lack of orgasms can make a girl crave sex more. And i agree with AuntAmy that she needs to work out more, and when you're having sex she should be more on top so that she can use up her energy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): Okay. What I find is that after sex, the times that I'm still horny afterwards and feel like I need more is when it's either:-not as long as usual (time wise!)-really, really good, then I will either crave more or just be exhausted-he comes really fast and I haven't orgasm yet.I think the thing you should do is make her work out, make her so tired that she won't want any more sex, shell just want to go to sleep.Does she usually go on top or on bottom?On top is much more tiring for a girl, as you probably will know, but she will also get exhausted if you work really hard on top. What you will find is that if you're going so fast and hard, you will usually take longer tovcome, as you're concentrating on pleasuring her and making yourself work harder rather than coming.Or, if thats not the problem, maybe shes not fully satisfied aft sex? You may need to find other ways of making her orgasm which mean she won't need sex afterwards?Good luck!
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