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writes:I haven't seen this guy in a couple of years, we didn't "talk" (meaning email) for months and all of a sudden he says he's coming to town and was wondering if he can see me. I got annoyed at the short notice and said no, now he hasn't spoken to me. Should i just forget about it or try to figure out if he really is annoyed. The thing is I really do like him, but since he works abroad I just thought I'd best forget about him. Reply to this Question
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reader, iforgot +, writes (24 January 2011):
iforgot is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your inputs everyone. Yup, I'll leave it be. I hate wasting time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): If it were important for him to see you, he definitely would have let you know WAY ahead of time to make sure he got to meet up with you. Most likely his other plans fell through and thats why he called.
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reader, shawncaff  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 I wonder why you didn't see him even if it was short notice.
I mean, if you liked him, why not make time to see him?
Also, as for you being annoyed...why were you annoyed? Maybe he could not help it and his pressing schedule allowed him only a certain amount of time. Maybe it was worth asking him why he couldn't have given you more notice.
I do not mean to be critical of you, I just mean to suggest some other possibilities.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 hi
i don't think you have any reason to feel bad. you didn't have any contact for months but then just because he happens to be coming to town he expects you to drop everything and see him? the fact that he is sulking that you said no and he couldn't have the courtesy to respond with 'yes i know its short notice, no problem, i'll hopefully see you next time i am back in town?' would totally put me off him to be honest.
let him have his little sulk, if you hear from him again you will know it is because he has seen his mistake, rather than you contact him to make peace even though you have done nothing wrong
xx
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