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26-29,
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writes:I have some really good friends at college even though I only started last year. We always talk and study and pretty much spend the whole day together. A few weeks ago I said to them that I thought one of the guys we see around is really fit and that I was thinking of trying to get to know him better as a friend (we've spoken a few times before?)I was getting too obsessive though, so I decided to get over him a couple days ago, but one of my friends is really trying to get me to think about him again. She keeps mentioning him and trying to change my mind! and I want to forget him so I can focus on my work! I love her, shes a great friend, but it's so annoying... I just cant get her to see that I think being single and focusing on my work is better right now? She has a boyfriend so she doesnt understand!Please help! x
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (24 January 2011):
 hi
i think she just wants you both to talk about boys together, her intentions are probably good but yes its annoying. i have this ex who lives in the same town as a friend of mine, and all the time my friend tries to tell me that she has seen J, J said this, J did that.. and its boring because i'm not interested in him any more, so i just politely change the subject. i suggest you do the same. he is not your boyfriend so you are right to not get obsessed and talk/think about him 24/7. i am sure you and your mate can find other things to talk about!
xx
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