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*pnwinchester
writes:If you heard about a guy who was spectacular in bed, like he was TRULY amazing and could give you multiple intense orgasms, was great at cuddling and foreplay, would this make you flirt with him and try get him into bed with you?I mean, why not? It could just be a one time thing right?Because I heard about one of my friends at school being this good in bed. It has come from around 5 different girls (Maybe more) and they all agree that he was truly mind blowing in bed. And now, every girl at school seems to be a LOT more interested in him, I look around and see tons of girls staring at him, touching him and constantly flirting with him. So I was just wondering, do you think him being incredible in bed is the reason why they're so into him now? And would you also try get him into bed if you know about him being this good? Or flirt with him a little more? Or treat him the exact same???
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reader, spnwinchester +, writes (25 January 2011):
spnwinchester is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers, they've all been great so thank you for putting in the time to answer.
First, yes I'm a guy, and no I'm not looking to have sex with him myself haha. Just looking for a girls point of view towards this guys situation.
They do all say hes hot, but not the hottest guy at school.
And I don't think it has to do anything with his penis size, Apparently he is so good at kissing and mucking around that they almost always end up jumping in bed with him. And when they're in bed he always seems to know what to do and when they've had enough. I'm not going to lie, I'm a little jealous here, as are lots of the other guys at school haha.
But I'm very close friends with one of the girls he has been with and she claimed she has never felt anything like that before. Apparently they had to stop completely a few times because the orgasm was so intense she thought she was going to pass out.
I mean, is that even possible? Haha...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): Well, I'd have to echo a statement below."what rocks one girl's world might not work for another"Maybe it's just my experience in life, and the women I've known (most of whom I've never had sex with or even kissed), and the stories they've told and the stuff I've read...but...it really seems that most women don't find guys "mind blowing in bed" unless they are really comfortable with them and know them and that those who do the most talk about it are those who are missing something.Let the women here answer for the women's side, but I've known more than one woman who had lots of sexual partners in all sizes and shapes (general body as well as penis and male as well as female) and their sexual experiences with a guy or a gal had a lot to do with the emotional "size" of the relationship than anything else and that the short term/one night stands had much to do with feeling horny, wanted and attractive but didn't have much to do with quality of sex or orgasms. This seems to have been the case no matter how experienced the partner was.But, then again, they may all be just lying through their teeth and penis size may be the only thing that matters....
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reader, Odds  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 It's rare, but this is exactly what happens to a guy friend of mine. He's one of those rare, lucky few who can walk into a room and every chick there will approach him and start flirting before he's even taken a seat. And yes, he gets passed around among groups of female friends, for being so good at it - girls tell friends who have not yet met him about him, and they seek him out. So twice-blessed.
It can happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): Also, who knows what kind of STDs he might have? Eww.
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reader, viccra78 +, writes (24 January 2011):
It depends on the kind of person you are. Some women would and some wouldn't. If you are younger and looking for excitement....sure why not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): There is nothing to suggest that he is into guys anyway so why bother?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 January 2011):
 What makes you think he's bisexual? Not everyone is you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): Sorry, I read this and thought it was from a girl asking about should she asking should she try and get him into bed, serves me right not paying proper attention. OK let me try again.
do you think him being incredible in bed is the reason why they're so into him now?
Yes.
And would you also try get him into bed if you know about him being this good?
Well, no I wouldn't try and get him into bed just on his reputation of being a sex god. Apart from worrying about catching something, I wouldn't want to be another notch on his bedpost, and be part of the stories he will probably end up telling when he is older.
Or flirt with him a little more?
Nope
Or treat him the exact same
I wouldn't treat him any different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): This might be true if they hear it from their friend's and not from the guy all the live long day.
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reader, faenon +, writes (24 January 2011):
 Then again how experienced are these 5 girls it could all be talk as well from them from lack of experience as well and a little shallow to mark a man just because rumors suggest his good in the sack or perhaps you like being another notch on his bedpost as Vintage64 said..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): It depends do you want to be another notch on his bedpost?
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