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writes:So I was dating this guy a year back and he seemed lovely but I was just out of a relationship and wasn't quite ready for a new one. I started getting a little bit freaked out at how quickly and well things were going, and i thought we were going to be going out pretty soon, so I put a stop to it and told him I just wasn't ready for committment just yet. So we stopped talking.Then I emailed him a couple of months lare and told him i'd missed him, and he said to me he wasn't looking to see anyone right now.Then just before xmas eve, we bumped into eachother in a club and we ended up kissing and it was really good fun, and we talked for the next couple of days. Then we met up on New Years eve in a club and we kissed and then I went to the bathroom and when I came out I couldn't find him, he'd just left me!!I found him and i asked him was something up, and he was just really cold and made an excuse that he'd to go, so he left and ive not seen or heard of him since.I'm thinking about him a lot, hate seeing his facebook etc, any advice?
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Well, you told him the truth, which is that you were not ready for another relationship and he took you at your word.
I realize you probably changed your mind about not being ready to get involved again after a couple months had passed. Therefore, you sent the email to say you missed him and got a reply that he's not thinking of dating anyone right now.
It was just chance you met at the club, and he enjoyed it as far as it went, but evidently had decided to stick with his decision as stated in his reply to your message.
You do better to give up on this guy now - oh, and STOP looking at his facebook! You're only rubbing salt in (your)wound.......
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