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writes:i am in a relationship with this guy.. we have been together for 8 months and we love each other infinitely ... we see each other every day and everything is generally okay. So, my problem is that he loves his best friend more than me.. Is that normal? I mean, they see each other at least three times a day, and i don't like it. I don't even like that guy... He is weird and i think that he is kinda controlling my boyfriend.. like, he always calls him and ask him to hang out, and he always does. I feel like he needs his friend more than me. he said it, but then he said that it didn't come out right, he meant it in a different way. He said:'I really enjoy spending time with you and i love you, but we have been together for 8 months, and i know my best friend for 13 years, it is normal to 'feel better' around him" i don't remember the exact expression he used but, that is what he said. then he said that he loves spending time with him as he loves spending time with me. Like it's the same thing. I mean, i don't see my friends the half as much time as he is spending with his friends, or one in particular. I asked him if he loves him more than he loves me, he said no. he said that he loves me more. Few times he said that it can't be comparable. I don't know if he says nicest things about me to him, but he always tells me how he is such a great guy, blah blah.. how well they know each other, and so.. i don't know... I know i am being a bit selfish here. But it seems to me like i have given my all to him, and every minute i have free i spend it with him... :/ I feel like he doesn't care for me that much... I know he loves me but i feel like i would give my all for him and he wouldn't do the same for me:/
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reader, 1000lies1000sorrys  +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Ok now let me give some advise i have had the same thing happen to me with my ex-girlfriend and trust on this when he says he" I love you" at this point it's a lie and he has lost intersest in you just me ex did in me. If you want some more advise or if you want tips and or you just want someone to talk to about this just respond back to me. Okay?
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