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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey Guys. I'm in love with a girl I treated like shit. I was to busy chasing after my ex who threw me away. stupid me. I got used to the girl I'm now in love with always being available and sweet and caring for me regardless of how cruddy I was to her or how many times I cursed her and told her to get lost. I guess I just thought I didn't have to pay her attention or chase after her since she stayed even when I shit on her. I don't know what happened but it's like out of the blue she become someone else. She's not around. I have to serarch her down which is hard as hell and when I find her she may answer or may not answer. The last time I found her phone number and called her she disconnected when I said hi. I didn't realize until she is not around anymore that she's the type of girl who made me feel loved and I didn't have to chase. Its like when she left I stopped chasing my ex because I didn't know I would be hurting from not having the girl I'm in love with around. I want to tell her how much she did for me and show her I am in love with her and how sorry I am for stepping all over her and shitting all over her all because I was a stupid dick chasing a girl who had moved on and didn't have time to even shit on me since I was thrown away long ago. Love was my side kick and I was to ignorant to love her and see her until she's gone. How can I let her know she's the best love for me and how I have to love her with every inch of me. I'm in love with her more than my exgirl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): Stay away from her. She will hurt you for hurting her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): I would be tempted to say 'good for her'. You treated her badly, she put up with so much, but has had enough and cut you out of her life. You have learned a valuable lesson if nothing else. To her, you are not a good bet, and any thought of giving you another chance would be risking being messed around again. I don't think you'll be able to win her over, you could give it a try. But to be honest, once you had her back, (should she be mad enough to give you another chance), I suspect you could slip into treating her badly again. So I hope she doesn't.
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