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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to do. Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): Rule of thumb.
Age when you are ready for sex is...
The age you feel you are ready + 2 years.
A
male
reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (12 January 2011):
I think the clue is in your last line... "I don't know what to do."
Your problem is your answer - your answer is your problem.
"If in doubt - leave it out" is my strong advice. You clearly are not ready for sex and may be feeling pressured by your girlfriend so, wait until it feels right. If that doesn't happen, then it's not fated to happen but will eventually, with the right girl.
Take it easy, take it slow.
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female
reader, CindyCares +, writes (12 January 2011):
No, don't go for it- may I remind you that you and your gf are under legal age for sex in USA ?
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male
reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (12 January 2011):
Just go for it.
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