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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ive liked this guy intensely for ages and tonight i was speaking with two of my good friends and they confirmed what i suspected for a while-that ive been played. i cant describe how hurt i am. i really cared for him and he knew it.but he was new at the job and i was very advanced and he obviously saw something vunerable in me and used that. i did everything i could for him-lent him money, bought him stuff to make him feel better-he was traumatised by personal stuff and i was there for him. at the beginning he'd ring constantly. i was also worried about lots of half truths he told and my friends saw he was a liar and warned me to be careful but i was infactuated. anyway recently -same job but new team he applied-again with my helping his application and he got it and has barely been in touch since. my friends even dont know what i saw in him as they thought he was ugly and up his own backside. i know why i was vunerable because my ex left me with heavy debt and i was forced to go insolvent so when this guy joined the job i was weak and thought he liked me.why would he do this to me. i liked him as a friend too but why play someone who done everything for you. now hes free to move on and forget anything i done for him why ?
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reader, chocoholicforever  +, writes (13 January 2011):
maybe you came on too strong and it made him uncomfortable. how long did you know him before you started lending him money and buying him stuff? Or perhaps with his personal issues he's not ready to be in a relationship yet and thus is not reciprocating your attention. Or maybe he never had any interest in you but because he was new to the company while you were more advanced he saw this as a way to boost his career, by 'sleeping his way to the top' to to speak...either way you're better off writing him off.
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