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Is this guy stalking me??

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Question - (12 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *oveitlongtime writes:

Last year I attended a boarding school, and there was a hockey player who was obsessed with me. He had a girlfriend, so never conversed with me, except the first day of school.

Incidents that took place last year were , showing up where I was most of the time, staring at me, waiting for me outside my classes, following me back to my dorm, grabbing me, shoving me up a staircase inappropriately, and being extremely subtle but extremely obvious to me.

last year he made a fake facebook, I found out it was him, because some of the things he said (fake facebook) made me know it was him, like where he played hockey and he gave it away.

I sent him a message this summer (his real facebook) asking him why he did what he did to me, and he told me I got the wrong person and I was insane, (my friends saw what he did all year, so I know I wasn't crazy) , I continued to tell him that I am not going to judge him or get him in trouble, if he just tells me why he did what he did, he told me he didn't know me and I was insane.

Last night I got a facebook ad, from another fake facebook, by the last name huntington, I googled the guys name from my school and a place called huntington came up under where he plays hockey, why won't he leave me alone, and should I take this seriously?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntDid he stop stalking you after all those incidents?

You were the one to message him on Facebook..so you kinda opened the can of worms on that one. Don't go asking this weirdo what his problem is, clearly he's not right in the head and could use some professional help.

I suggest you block him from Facebook, both accounts, don't be tempted to add him as a friend. Once he leaves you alone, you also leave him alone.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011):

Just block the person on Facebook and any people who you suspect might be him. Don't contact him. Just avoid all contact. He'll get bored, if it is infact him. Sometimes it is easy to see every small thing as 'contact' because you are looking for it. If it gets troubling in a physical sense then you need to tell someone in authority(school/college) so it is on record, and perhaps they might quietly have a word with him.

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