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*k202009
writes:My Boyfriend wants to go on holiday with 2 of his (single) friends, the only problem is he wants to go to zante. we have been together for nearly 4 years and i know what hes like when he is drunk, he flirts stares/oggles and has even admitted to groping. this worries me as zante isnt exactly known for it lovely scenery and im worried what will happen if they all get really drunk as none of them know when to stop. i love him and trust him but i dont want him to go on a lads holiday to zante i wish he would chose somewhere with abit more class. i cant stop him going on holiday but dont want him going somewhere like this??? any suggestions
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 I'm guessing Zante is a party scene?
There's nothing you can do about him going to Zante, it's a boy's holiday. I'm sure everything is booked and paid for. Even if you try to convince him to go elsewhere, he won't listen and you'll look like a controlling girlfriend.
When he gets drunk, the boy has control over his actions. He doesn't have to flirt, ogle, or grope but he does it because he wants to. The alcohol isn't making him do it, it's just an excuse to do what he wants. If I were you I would rethink who you're dating.
The only thing you can do, is try to keep in contact with him as much as you can. But even then, he could ignore your texts and go out to party. You really DON'T know what he will be doing over there. But if you trust him then there should be no problem, right?
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