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writes:I'm here looking for I guess you can say some understanding about why I'm feeling the way I feel. You see I was madly in love with a guy to the point where I took a rap for him and did 1 year prison time for him. The kicker is when I got released I called him so we could get together only for him to put a woman on the phone to tell me to never talk to him again because they were an item for the past 3 years. He got on the phone afterwards and confirmed what the woman said plus he started laughing and told me that he never cared about me but fake it so I would take the rap for him. There's really no need to tell how this impacted me. I'm still traumatized. I didn't think I could ever hate someone but tonight I found out I could when I got a phone call from him where he was crying like a baby for what he had done to me and pleading for me to give him another chance. I just listened. I told him I would call him tomorrow. I hate him. How do I stop myself from making him feel the deepest love in life so I can make him know the hate I have for him when I take a ice pick to his heart by getting mass revenge on him worse than what he did to me. I live to hurt him massively. Help me get rid of my rage, resentment and revenge before I tear him to shreds beyond repair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): "I got a phone call from him where he was crying like a baby for what he had done to me and pleading for me to give him another chance."
Get professional help. This is a classic abuser, and you have been more than abused.
Get professional help.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 January 2011):
 Well they say there's a fine line between love and hate and I think that's what you are feeling. He's been seeing the other woman for 3 years, so does that infrindge on the time y ou were seeing him before y ou went in prison. So looks like he was cheating on you and then took up full time with her when you went in. So he was in a nice place, getting looked after by her until the day y ou came out. He can't have his cake and eat it. Did he used to visit you in prison? It's all a bit complicated but you need to get it out of your system and get all the facts from him before y ou can sort yourself out emotionally. You need the truth from him so you can put your life in to some kind of order then know which direction to move on to. I can understand how raged and angry you are. You must have really loved him to take the rap for him but he has let you down by not standing by you for that. Talk it out with him or not it's up to you but if you ever do begin the relationship with him again think about all the trouble he could get you into next time.
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