A
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age
26-29,
*hehuntison
writes:Why can't I get a boyfriend? I am half- japanese, and all of my friends say that I'm really pretty, and guys have called me beautiful, georgeous, hot, ect. And they tell me I could get any guy. I can't even go down the street with my friend without getting whistled at. No guy has ever asked me out, and i asked one once, and he said that he never asked me out becuase he thought i'd say no. So, i decided that i will make it obvious when i like a guy, so i did for this one guy B, who seemed to like me, and was pretty outgoing, but then all of a sudden he stared ignoring me. I would text him and he wouldnt respond, then I told him i was going to his youth group with my friend on fb, and he went offline (my friend told me to quit doubting myself cuz facebook isnt always right with the online, offline thing)but he invited me to his youthgroup last week, and i told him i was gonna go this week, and he ignored me. I just dont see what I'm doing wrong...
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reader, thehuntison +, writes (13 January 2011):
thehuntison is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers!
Actually this guy (the same one) invited me to his youth group thing, and i went with one of my really good friends who goes there too. When i got there he gave me a hug and was really excited that i came and stuff. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): I have been the guy in this situation many years back. There was this girl in my school. She was pretty good looking but had this silly thing (she had a strong body odor) that guys used to make fun of...behind her back obviously. It is like all the guys had unanimously outcasted her. Though I kinda liked her personally, but if I ever got close to her, I was assured of being ridiculed by the guys. She was my study partner actually and when the rumour started floating that I was "into" her, I stopped meeting her for studies. I am 36 now and as I said, this was many many years ago when I was young and stupid. Your situation could be very well the same - are you popular among the girls? Recruit a guy-friend and get his opinion. Or, go for a make-over. Hope this helps.
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reader, Merawder  +, writes (12 January 2011):
If the problem really is that guys find you "unaproachable" then it's pretty obvious what to do. If you like someone, be forward! YOU can always ask HIM out, and if your as atractive as he sayI'm sure he'll be interested in getting to know you.
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